Managing Your Move to or in Colorado Springs: Expectations vs. Reality--Part 102/18/2018Moving is the adult equal of middle school—everyone is very zealous about the thought, but it's only the folks with down-to-earth expectations who wind up having a trouble-free move. Yes, it is a new abode, a new beginning, and the possibility of a wonderful new life--but once that last empty truck pulls away and you are standing there in the middle of your boxes, you have still got to do the real work. Managing your move with realistic expectations is fundamental to starting that new life on a positive note--and that means not only coming to terms with the fact that a new abode will not wondrously suck up the twenty pounds you keep meaning to lose, but that moving is emotionally exhausting even in ideal circumstances and you and your family should allocate the time and space to accept that. One of the stragne things about a local move--new abode, neighborhoods, schools--is that can be harder on the children than a long-distance relocation. A new residende across the country takes away the non-stop requests to go visit their friends in the old neighborhood, and it could be less difficult to embrace a new life and new friends when your old ones are in a different time zone. But back to the practicalities. There are three Ps when it comes to managing your move to or in Colorado Springs--Purge, Pack, and Pay. What you do not purge has to be packed, and the more you pack, the more you'll pay. Expectation—I'll go through old stuff and only keep what I love. Reality--you love lots more than you realize you do. No matter if you do your own packing or hire a professional moving company, you've got to select what is worth the time and money to take with you. Purge Purging is one of those weird phrases you do not hear very often, at least in a affirmative implication. In actuality, releasing the old baggage is one of the wisest ways so that you can empower your new residence to bestow your expectations of wonderful. There are all kinds of rules and pointers to help you figure out the best ways to go through your old things, from pragmatic--"if you haven't used/worn it in a year get rid of it"; to a bit off-the-wall--"toss all your negative energy out with the old towels". At its simplest level, purging is simply sorting through all the cupboards, closets and drawers and forming three piles: take with you, throw away, donate. Or you could have four piles if you've got some nice items that you don't want anymore, and consign those items. A difficult thing about purging is maintaining the aloofness you need to be cutthroat about getting rid of items. If you stored all those pre-school paintings, how can you get rid of them and be a great parent? Here's a tip—appoint a friend to help you go through things and talk you through why you're holding onto items that are really better out of the house. Having a friend ask you out loud why you want to hang on to the 1980s Walkman does put things in focus and you'll have a pain-free time growing the get-rid-of pile if you've got someone to reinforce your decisions. If your significant other is the one with the hoarder tendencies, here is a suggestion for helping an unwilling significant other part with their treasures. Think small, and commence with the kitchen junk drawers, try to limit handling of old matchbooks and broken screwdrivers to one time only and steadily get to more important items, like collections (for example, pick out two or three porcelain bunnies and donate or consign the rest). Join us next time as we go over managing your move topics: Pack and Pay, in Part 2 of this blog series.